I hate myself for loving you~

It's really tough to make a decision..
Whether stop here right now or continue , it's only will keep me more suffer..
I've no idea which way i should choose..


SAVE ME FROM MYSELF

It's not so easy loving me
It gets so complicated
All the things you gotta be
Everything's changing
But you're the truth
I'm amazed by all your patience
Everything I put you through

when I'm about to fall
Somehow you're always waiting with
Your open arms to catch me
You're gonna save me from myself
From myself, yes
You're gonna save me from myself

My love is tainted by your touch
Well some guys have shown me aces
But you've got that royal flush
I know it's crazy everyday
Well tomorrow may be shaky
But you never turn away

Don't ask me why I'm crying
'Cause when I start to crumble
You know how to keep me smiling
You always save me from myself
From myself, myself
You're gonna save me from myself

I know it's hard, it's hard
But you've broken all my walls
You've been my strength, so strong
And don't ask me why I love you

It's obvious your tenderness
Is what I need to make me
A better woman to myself
To myself, myself
You're gonna save me from myself

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HYxmS4UNrWY

Just wanna be your woman

心里的矛盾。。

其实曾经问一问自己，是否爱你太深
是否对你投入太多。。

很想自己停下来，放下一切，独自离开。。
但现在的我完全做不到。。

也许我们不会有结果，但现在的我还没有想要放弃！！
至少在离开之前，我是不会放弃！！


我们可以一起到最后吗？？
我们可以创造幸福吗？？


心里充满矛盾的小女人。。

♥♥ How to Solve Relationship Problem ♥♥

• Understand each other's personal values. Misunderstandings and conflicts happen when your values conflict with those of others, and when expectations are not met. You can let others know what your values are by telling them. You can find out about their values by asking questions or observing their actions. Knowing what’s important to others and yourself will avoid unnecessary conflicts.

• Learn to listen. All people want to be taken seriously and be appreciated. When you listen attentively without interrupting, you are showing respect. Allow people to tell you about the books they have read, the things they did, and how they feel. Listening will give you the opportunity to learn about their values and expectations.

• Show kindness. You can Smile, it is the simplest act to show friendliness. Make others feel your warmth by offering help and kind words. Acknowledge their talents and achievements. Give praise and appreciate their efforts. Show it in your tone of voice, your posture and your actions.

• Avoid arguments. Remove ego and pride. In arguments, people want to prove a point using force, threats, and intimidation causing resentment. In this situation, no one actually wins or benefits. Step back, and look at the situation from a different point of view. You are not submitting, but altering the outcome by letting others see that you are committed to the relationship. You should try to compromise. Forgive people when they make mistakes. If you have made a mistake, admit it, and apologize sincerely.

• Give and take. Give what you are comfortable with and accept what other can give. Contribute your time and effort without unreasonable expectations in return. When you do good deeds for others, let that be it's own reward so that you don't build resentments.

• Share your feelings. Ask for what you want and need. People can’t read your mind. Make your request with a smile be direct don't use "hints". Communicate and share your thoughts and feelings with them. Open up, and allow them to understand you.

• Develop trust. Trust is the foundation of healthy relationships. Keep your promises. Once people trust you, you can have a healthy relationship.

**TIPS

~Keep in mind the results you want.
~Remember it is better to be happy than to be angry.
~Compromise on everything except your integrity.
~Relationships may come and go but your self respect is everlasting.
~Good relationships require effort but they are worth it.
~Just remember no one is perfect.
~Read your partner's body actions and check how they are feeling - it should be both sides that need to listen and respect.

♥♥ shared by Princess ♥♥

http://www.wretch.cc/blog/sansan933/32202185

❤ The beautiful Friday ❤

Today, woke up at 10 something at Honey's grandma house...

Have a nice dream yesterday nite ... haha

After had the Famous and Fatness " ah Lian" nasi lemak..

I went to Sunway for meeting with my Market Research group members...



After 2 hours, I plan to back home at 1st but when i called vily..

I switch my plan immediaty and drive to college to with vily and our family...

When i was reached coll..

They keep taken picture and hugged each other at the corridor..

They're too excited for the last day at college...

Congratz to them for Graduate soon =)

Gudluck for their Final exam...

After their class, Vily suggested when to Jco for high-tea...

The second times for this week...

They all love Jco...


We when to Qb by our own car ... No more carpool ~

Enjoyed the enviroment at there with my lovely family...

Honey Vily, Crazy Xinhui, Sweetiest Shuling, Cutiest JunChang and Cool Jack Jack..

We keep laugh and laugh at there...

we make a lot of noise at there... *devil laugh*

Really have fun with them *hugs*

And we planned another gathering at next thursday !!



After the gathering, straight back to AS...

Really tired and exhausted now !!!



P/s: Thanks to my vily to help me solve so many problem...
I ❤ you !!
which u wanna heard that...LOL

❤ princess ❤

♥ 致：我的一百分男人♥ ❤❤ To my perfect man ❤❤

27/10
我的不满足让我很痛苦。。
爱你又怕失去你。。
很多人不明白我不能失去你。。
现在的我，更本不了解你在想什么。。
是我多心了吗？？

今天对你冷淡，是想试着放下你，不想爱你太深。。
可是，发觉自己根本做不到。。
心里很痛苦，很辛苦。。
才发觉自己对你太认真。。

我可以不理所谓的原则吗？？
两个人单纯地在一起，好吗？？
我的不满足让我很想拥有你。。
我自己也不晓得下一步该怎么做，只知道不能这样的失去你。。

一开始，从没想过要对你认真，
但现在认真的我，就连我自己都害怕。。
害怕，抽离不到。。
害怕，万一知道真相背后的秘密。。

26/10

Babe, u're so so so smart...
muuacksss...
今天的你又在让我比昨天更爱你。。。
你的聪明和才华让我欣赏。。
很想很想和你一起离开。。
真的控制不了自己，每分每秒都在想你。。


也许有些人认为我喜欢你是因为你的身份背景，
babe,
现在我一点都不在乎，只想和你在一起到最后。。。
现在的我，只知道不能失去你。。
我可以为你改变与牺牲一切。。
只为了留在你的身边。。。

25/10
你的优点遮盖了你的缺点。。
如此完美的你，让我深深被你吸引。。。
你的独特，让我对你着迷。。。
好想让你成为最后一个。。。

24/10
现在有一点点想你。。
You're my perfect man!
Can't wait to meet u on monday=)

23/10
今天虽然没见面，可是你在我的心里还是加分的。。
现在好想马上和你在一起！！
好想好想抱着你。。。
谢谢你，填满我的心里。。。。♥♥

22/10

前几天还在烦恼到底该不该为你留下，当知道你也要与我离开的时候。。
心里有无比的兴奋。。
很想和你一起去，但是一切太迟了。。
但是还是会依然爱你。。

你每天都给我不停的惊喜。。
每天你都在我心里加分。。
每天让我更爱你。。

你的聪明和才华
你的幽默与笑容
让我爱你爱到无法自拔。。。

是你，让我忘记过去的伤痛。。
是你，让我知道活着的意义。。
是你，让我每天都过得精彩。。
是你，让我心里泛起了涟漪。。

我的宝贝❤❤❤❤， 真的真的好喜欢和你相处的每一秒。。。。

❤ Just a little woman ❤

❤❤ 一辈子当你的小女人❤❤

❤ princess ❤